On my last post, I wrote about some of my goals for 2017 (reading more books, writing often, daily meditation, etc.) and also personal challenges that would hopefully include 12 adventures—new places and/or new experiences:
1) going to a new place—by plane, train, automobile or even on foot, and not necessarily far from where I live.
2) by experiencing something new, something I have never done before—whether taking a class for personal growth, learning a new craft, or participating in something within the community.
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“This is What Democracy Looks Like”
This is my personal challenge #1 (a disclaimer and my sincere apology to my blogger friends that if you have voted for Trump, this blog may not be properly suited for you):
I was hoping that the year 2017 is going to be a quiet year and a lot less eventful than the past couple of years. So far, politically speaking, it’s been a wreck and the year just started! Since Donald Trump was sworn in as the President of the United States, I haven’t been able to focus on accomplishing any of my goals I mentioned in my last post, such as reading the books I’ve collected over the years. Instead I’ve spent the majority of my days catching up on the news. His first week was a whirlwind of activity with unimaginable executive orders and one after the other caused my world to crash, spiraling down quickly. However, the upside is I’ve been able to take on challenges far from what I thought I was capable of accomplishing.
The month of January was all about pushing myself. I’ve gone outside my comfort zone, doing things I wouldn’t have done in the past, and experiencing a whole new world!
The Presidential election in the United States in November left a big hole in my heart. I’ve never cried in any elections in the past but I did with this one. I cried until 4am the next day, and the days that followed. I was so shocked at this outcome and for a man who’s lacking decency and proper diplomacy is now the 45th President of the United States. He ran his campaign by pandering on xenophobia (by insulting immigrants, accusing Mexicans as rapists and thieves, by suggesting a Muslim ban); by demeaning women as evident on the tapes (bragging about grabbing them by their genitals); and by spreading hate (encouraging violence in his rallies). For the first time in my 25 years as an American citizen, I was afraid and embarrassed. I feared for my country, for Americans without privilege, and most especially for my sons.
A Trump presidency became much more personal when he campaigned for the repeal of the ACA—Affordable Care Act (nicknamed by the republicans as Obamacare). Before the year 2010, insurance companies can deny coverage to people who have pre-existing conditions, have imposed a lifetime cap on patients, and children under 26 years old did not have the privilege to be covered under their parents’ insurance. These provisions were changed when the ACA became a law.
In 2010, my younger son was first diagnosed with his leukemia and if it hadn’t been for the ACA, he could have been denied insurance the second time his cancer came back due to pre-existing condition and lifetime cap. Also his medical bill has already accumulated close to $2 million (his lifetime cap was $3 million). Trump said he won’t take away these provisions but I honestly do not know what to expect. His administration has been caught in web of lies that I find it hard to trust them. As far as I’m concerned, the law is already in place and I see no reason to repeal it.
Worried about where the healthcare’s direction is going under the Republican Party, it was now up to me if I should sit back and wait for others to do the work. Or I can challenge myself to become active and be a part of the solution.
I called my state representative to remind them that there will be millions of people who will get hurt, including my son, if Obamacare was repealed without a viable replacement. I also joined local Facebook groups, where members are mainly made up of women, who are active in the community, organizing rallies, protests, or phone calls to legislators whether it be resisting Trump’s cabinet appointments or demanding to restore democracy. They are among the millions of Americans nationwide who resist Trump’s unconventional and dangerous leadership.
And this has become my new world, being a part of the resistance movement.
Together with these women (and some men), we went to protest at our senator’s office (Ted Cruz) regarding the future of Obamacare. I was chosen to speak with the senator’s staff, explaining to him why Obamacare is important not only to my family but for millions of Americans with pre-existing conditions who may lose their insurance coverage. It was the very first protest I participated and guaranteed, there will be more to come.
But the most empowering event I participated thus far was the Women’s March on January 21, a day after Trump’s inauguration. I couldn’t fly to Washington DC so I asked two of my friends if they were interested in joining me to do The Women’s March on Austin. There were several women’s groups who organized round trip bus transportations to and from Austin. At 7:30 am, we left Dallas and it took three hours to get there with a restroom stop along the way. The bus was full of women with their pink knitted “pussy” hats and/or “nasty women” shirts. We were all proud to be part of the (estimated 4 million) marchers worldwide, who protested against Donald Trump and his authoritarian-like regime. However, the protest was not only about Donald Trump. It also covered issues such as:
1) women’s issues— (lashing out against his treatment of women, with his infamous line, “grab them by the pussy”;
2) healthcare— (as I already have explained);
3) immigration issues—building a wall on the border of Mexico and the U.S., deporting (and separating families) the 11 million undocumented immigrants, putting a ban on Muslims, etc.;
3) environment—the Republicans are known to be climate change deniers;
4) his choices of cabinet members who will definitely not drain the swamp but instead will benefit the top 1%;
5) LGBTQ issues—it is especially concerning that with a Vice President like Mike Pence who was known for favoring discrimination against the LGBTQ community, we are now going backwards. Marriage equality was just passed under the Obama administration which states that a person can marry whoever they love regardless of their sex and gender orientation but that is now being threatened under this new administration.
Everyone initially gathered at the Capitol. Then we slowly made a loop around South Congress, which took about an hour or so. It was nonstop chanting and we were getting cheers from onlookers. It was uncomfortably warm that day and the sun was shining bright on my face but the heat didn’t bother me. It felt great. For the first time in months, I felt alive.
The march was not just for myself but also for my sons, for everyone’s sons and daughters, and for the men and women whose voices needed to be heard.
The tears I shed on election night had transformed me into a much better American. However, my activism won’t begin and end with Trump. Complacency is no longer an option because America is changing and she will always need my voice. My voice, together with million other voices, will be heard. Because this is what democracy will always look like.
I didn’t know about Obamacare issue until I read this. Good to know.
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Hi Vinneve, thanks for reading! Yeah even Americans don’t know much about it either.
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Haha! 🙂
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Hi Boots! Our friend, The Editor’s Journal, sent me over to you. 🙂 She read a post I wrote about the march, and thought we should connect. I’m so glad she suggested it. It was important reading your post…the ACA was my most important issue when marching, but I was surprised that I didn’t see many signs about it. I am single and lucky to be in good health, but I fear the repeal of the ACA will have horrible effects, and reading your post makes that more personal. I am proud of your efforts, and hope we can both find the energy to keep them up! Looking forward to following your blog…
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Hi thanks for the follow and reading my post! It is scary that they are getting close to repealing ACA. Although they have promised to keep some of its provisions such as pre-existing condition, there’s more to it that concerns me. Anyway, we will see what they come up with but in the meantime, we need to keep resisting!
Looking forward to your blog as well. We both like to travel as well!
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Yes it is scary…feeling a bit down at the moment about it all. It has been an intense day of news for all of us, and I’m in Planned Parenthood’s action network, so I’ve been getting a lot of emails and texts about demonstrations tomorrow. Trying to stay positive and remember to take some time for some TLC so I can get some energy to be motivated to be an activist. Hope you are able to do the same! 🙂
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It’s definitely physically and emotionally draining to be an activist! Especially with this new administration, we never know what they’re going to do next. Take care of yourself!
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Thank you so much for the encouragement. I appreciate it. Off on a big work trip, so it is good to have a bit of space. Hope you are looking out for yourself too!
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This is a better address and guess what, she likes to travel too!
https://gracefullyglobalblog.com/2017/01/31/speak-out-how-i-am-helping-make-my-country-great-and-how-my-country-is-making-me-greater/
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I passed your blog onto this lady as you seem to be on the same journey so you can say hi and become blog pals maybe.
https://gracefullyglobalblog.com/2017/01/31/speak-out-how-i-am-helping-make-my-country-great-and-how-my-country-is-making-me-greater/comment-page-1/#comment-1240
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Thank you so much! I just saw her comment and we seem to have a lot in common- travel and politics 🙂
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Great minds and all that! 🙂 (You two that is, not me!)
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Oh yes… you,too, especially! ❤️
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🙂
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Great post. Well done Boots on your march and talking to Senator Cruz. Keep it up!!! Louise
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Thanks so much Louise! Will be doing a lot of these until it settles down here in the US but guessing it won’t be anytime soon!
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Yes unfortunately I don’t think it will settle down in the near future either.
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Great post! Blogging is such a great platform to let it all hang out!! You go girl!! I love Austin. Been exactly where that demonstration took place!! So cool…
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Thanks Alesia! Austin sure is a great city. I just heard it made #1 for best places to live in the US.
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Which magazine? I think #1 is Seattle!! Lol
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Lol! I was listening to POTUS on Sirius XM. Seattle can’t be #1 it’s too expernosve over there! 😜
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That must have been hard that is to listen😹
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Oops I meant it’s too “expensive”.. 😃
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Hi Boots, it’s been uneasy weeks after Trump becomes the president. It is like every day there will be breaking news with surprises. What you do is inspiring and I do hope for better and fair healthcare system in the U.S. Healthcare should be accessible for all, not just for the rich and the elites. Wishing you the best!
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Thank you Indah! It’s been a long time!
I’m sorry you have to witness all these political craziness here in America. But glad you’re in Minnesota, quite a progressive state! I am in Texas and the politics here is difficult but I’m managing to meet more people with the same mindset!
Hope to hear from you more often! And I’d love to meet you someday. If you ever get to Texas, let me know 😊
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I don’t even care that this is not your usual travel blogging. It was fantastic! Perhaps I can hear you clearer than ever before because through your son you may just have found your ‘voice’ in blogging.
Although political you put your point across with passion, clarity and without the now normal childish left / right insults. It’s one of the most honest pieces I’ve read in a while. Good on you! Very much looking forward to keeping up with your activism side as well as your travel bits.
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Thank you so much! I don’t really like blogging about politics because once I did about gun control and I got a troll who was so rude I had to delete what I wrote.
But this time I didn’t care. I had to blog about it.
Anyway, the women’s march started with women who wanted to make a point, and many others joined the effort. And I’m one of those who had to make a point and joined their efforts especially on what’s closest to my heart–my son’s healthcare rights. Thank you again for reading. Really appreciate it! And I want to let you know, you’re the reason I changed my mind about taking this blog more seriously. I remember what you said, “why don’t you just write a diary instead if you don’t want your blog seen by other people?” Lol! Although I have never talked to my friends and family about my blog (other than my immediate family), I found good “friends” here who follows my blog. So thank you!
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Lol That’s brilliant that I got you to see your voice is valuable and should be shared. I also love the fact that you say ‘I am a slow writer. Writing my thoughts do not come as easy as you or other bloggers’ and still you push through and do it. Many don’t, because they don’t realize how charming someone making an effort can be and think they have to be perfect.
Lol regarding the troll. I love them! I eat them for breakfast when I have the time to waste (which isn’t often unfortunately) but they never visit me!
At least this time you are prepared for what COULD come when you chat politrics so you won’t be easily put off. Go Boots! 🙂
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I know you’re fierce!! I need to be more like you haha!!
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I’m so glad you wrote this. And glad that you’ve made your voice heard and clear. If I hadn’t been up to my eyes in baby I would have participated in our Women’s March. I may not be American but Trump’s presidency along side our political turmoil and Brexit here are signs we need to make a stand
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Hi Ting! I’m glad you didn’t go because it would’ve been way too many people for you. The world is changing and it’s going backwards instead of forward. We can no longer be complacent and trust our leaders to make good judgements.
Keep us posted with any baby news! ❤️
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Yes we had a boy over four weeks ago 🙂 We’re all doing well just about! I’ve shared some snaps on a post x
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Am I getting your posts? Because I make sure I read your posts but didn’t see the new baby. This also happened with someone I follow. I don’t see his posts.
Congratulations!!! Two boys like me. Enjoy them. They are precious. So will you call your blog my two travel monkeys now?
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I’m not sure why you’re not getting them. We call him Peanut 😊but he’s definitely a monkey alright! Especially at night!
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Ahhh so cute!!! Your monkey is so handsome so I’m sure peanut is too!!
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It’s great to see your writing on political matters Boots. I’ve always been a bit of a political junkie, so I like knowing how people interpret the civic events of the day. When I was very young, I was deeply impacted by what I saw on television with Vietnam and the protests that accompanied that war. The presidential campaign of 2016, in my opinion, reflected a great gap in American political thought that has only grown wider and more contentious since the 60’s.
I think in 2016 the country had to choose from two very flawed candidates. Again, in my opinion, the flawed candidates reflect the extreme gaps in American ways of thinking. I am a confirmed independent, meaning that I will vote for whomever I believe is the best candidate, regardless of party. In 2016, I could not vote for either candidate. I do not trust a great deal of the news I hear in the media. I have very good friends in both political parties and absolutely will never endanger a friendship over difference in political opinions.
You mention your experience with healthcare. I believe that healthcare is a basic human right. I support the concept of comprehensive, single payer healthcare for all people, which is more aligned with the Canadian system. I don’t think Obamacare went far enough. I also don’t think that Congress should ever have a health-care insurance program for themselves that is not available to all Americans, regardless of income.
The pictures of your protest are great! I particularly like the ‘Boot’ poster! Looking forward to more of your writings.
Larry
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Thank you Larry! I had similar political views as you did, voting for the best candidate, rather than party loyalty. And I totally understand how you felt about the two candidates. I voted for Clinton because I feared Trump would win. No one I talked to about politics believed he could win. I had that weird feeling I couldn’t explain and unfortunately I was right. I used to be very angry at everyone who voted for him, those who didn’t vote or voted third party. But I don’t hold that grudge anymore. I believe that Trump has to happen, to wake us up, to change the democrats, to make Americans less complacent.
Regarding Obamacare, I know it’s not perfect, and if the republicans can replace it with a better option I’m all for it. But I don’t trust them. It was only a month ago when they voted to shut down pre-existing condition among other things. Im just afraid for my son. He’s been through so much.
I’m excited to write about my second challenge. But I am a slow writer. Writing my thoughts do not come as easy as you or other bloggers I follow 🙂
Have a great weekend Larry!
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